Tag: Practice

5 Ways To Help Kids Practice

Parent’s often ask me how they can help their child progress when learning to play an instrument. We often forget that there are many ways that we can help children improve even if we are not musically accomplished ourselves. So here we go:

1. Time

Rather than setting a time limit or scheduling an exact time try be a little more casual. Pick a general time of day for them to begin their practice. So, for example, you might choose to have them start just after dinner each day. You could even choose a time-frame like between 5pm and 6pm for example. The point is: don’t be too strict with the “when”.

2. Place

Music, like language, is something social. You need to be around other people to truly benefit from it. With this in mind, practice should always be done in a public area of the house where other people can hear them. That being said, if they would prefer somewhere quiet suggest somewhere within earshot so you can hear them play.

3. Praise

Everyone loves to know that their hard work is appreciated. Praise them for their hard work, how well they sound, and how much they’ve improved.

 

 

 

4. Encourage

Ask them to play a song for you. When they play for you make an effort to sing, dance or bop along to show that their playing is making someone happy.

 

 

 

5. Repeat

Habits are made through repetition. Using these steps keep them coming back. The more you help them with their practice, the sooner they’ll set to work on their own.

The worst excuse: “I didn’t have the time!”

Last week we discussed 5 tips to improve how you practice. Today we are going to discuss the most frequently used excuse out there. Today, I plan on showing why this is the lamest excuse to give:
“I didn’t have the time!”

 

Clock

What time is it?

Arnold Bennett wrote a book back in 1910 called “How to Live on 24 Hours a Day” (You can find a copy at Project Gutenberg – Click Here). In this book, he goes about showing how much time is actually wasted in our day-to-day lives that that if indeed we wanted to do something, we could.

 

The bit that convinced me involves a little bit of maths:

There are 168 hours in a week.

The average person sleeps 8 hours a day. So in a week they would sleep 56 hours. This leaves 112 hours.

The average person eats 3 meals a day. Assuming that we allow 1 hour for each meal this would mean that 21 hours are taken up eating. This leaves 91 hours.

The average adult works 8 hours per day for 5 days a week (Your lunch break is accounted for under “meals”). Taking these 40 hours away we still have 51 hours remaining.

According to the Central Statistics Office (Ireland) the average commute to work is just under 30 minutes. Assuming it takes the same time coming back that is 1 hour per day. So 5 hours from 51 hours leaves 46 hours.

 

Is this the best use of my time?

Is this the best use of my time?

This means we have 46 hours remaining in the week to call spare time. That is a full time job, with lunch breaks and an hour to spare!

 

The big question to ask yourself now is,
“What are you doing with those 46 hours?”

Why don’t we take a look?

 

According to The Irish Times we spend just under 3.5 hours a day watching TV. That’s 25.5 hours per week.

According to this article on breakingnews.ie the average time spent on Social Media is 13 hours per week.

That’s 38.5 hours a week spent on Social Media or watching TV! This is why your teacher, boss, co-workers, friends etc. etc. etc. let out a loud sigh when they hear you say,
“I didn’t have the time!”

 

We spend 25.5 hours watching TV per week

We spend 25.5 hours watching TV per week

Instead of using their spare time productively the average person wastes it. So when you pick up your TV remote or unlock your phone, ask yourself:

“Is this the best use of my time?”

Obviously these figures are based entirely on averages and we cannot deny that sometimes life happens and we genuinely run out of time. However, no one can deny that an awful lot of our time is wasted. If you are one of those people who has successfully managed to spend every moment of their lives productively and without wasting any time, please contact me immediately; I’d love to know the secret to your success!